Guys may not like to admit that they have a problem, but when they start to leave their partners sexually frustrated and unsatisfied because they could not keep themselves in control any longer, then something would need to be done about it. Make sex last longer and both you and your lover would be the better for it. There are some things that you can do to ensure this. One reason why guys ejaculate prematurely is because they get too excited during the act. So it just takes a few thrusts and then it is over. However, if a guy would masturbate a few hours before having sex with a partner, then he would be able to get rid of the tension and take longer to have an orgasm during the actual sex itself. A man can also make sure that he pleasures his partner first and give her an orgasm before the real fun can begin. In addition, wearing thicker condoms can also help in reducing the chances of a premature ejaculation. When sex lasts longer, then both people would be happier.